What does a man see when he looks at a woman? This age-old question has been asked over and over again in many forms and endless ways. There are many opinions on the matter, but after reading this, you may have to rethink a few of your thoughts.
Here’s our list of what we think causes a man to feel a woman is psychologically and emotionally irresistible:
1. Walk the talk
This is a list topper. According to behavioral psychologists, body language makes up for 55% of all communication in relationships. In fact, men cannot resist a woman who exudes poise and confidence. From the way she walks to the way she talks – A man will literally go mad for a woman whose attitude screams ‘I know who I am, I know what I want and nothing is going to stop me from having it all.’ So the next time you walk into a room, act like you own it. This will surely turn heads – especially of the one you’re trying to attract.
2. Humour does it – every time!
Nothing attracts a man more than a sense of humour. In fact, universally, men desire women who stay cheerful and relaxed through every situation. Nothing sends them running in the opposite direction more than a woman who is boring and overly emotional. Remember! Humour and a cheerful demeanor are like a tattoo on a woman’s forehead that shouts “I’m the one”. Also, never forget to laugh at their jokes no matter how stupid they sound. Anything to stroke their egos, right? LOL.
3. A little bit of conversation
How many times have you found a guy attractive, but the moment he opened his mouth, you turned tail and ran! This is true for a guy, too. He might be attracted to a woman’s looks, but the way she talks, could really get him hooked! Conversation matters – The way a woman speaks, her confidence, knowledge and attention. When a woman shows a genuine interest in his likes and dislikes, he’ll want to listen to her for days, not just hours!
4. Stay forever young
The most common mistake women make is thinking that all men are attracted to only the physical aspects of a person. While this does play a role in attraction, it is not the only one. Men love women who are youthful in their attitude. A woman who is innocent and childlike, full of energy and has a huge zest for life – He wont be able to keep his eyes off her, let alone his hands. The good news is you have the power to change a man’s level of desire for you. Learn the type of energy he emotionally responds to and show him the little girl in you, over and over again!
5. Beauty is more than skin deep
Healthy hair, good-looking skin, well-done makeup, an irresistible perfume… These may be some of the superficial things men love. But let’s be honest – these are the things we love, too. The truth is most men really don’t want a super model for a partner. Rather, a woman who is presentable and well dressed. Now these are the external factors. What about the internal ones? Your internal beautify can actually make men respond like crazy. So, just be happy. Happy with what you have and who you are. Men are really attracted to pleasant, positive and cheerful women. And smile – This shows that you are friendly and open to meeting new people.
6. Love him – love his friends
Men will always be men in one aspect – their friends. No matter how many women come and go, the bros will always stay. You don’t have to go for every single game or watch every action flick that comes out, but you MUST learn how to get along with his buddies. This in turn will make him want to spend time with your friends, too. A win-win all the way.
7. Cherish him
While most men enjoy independence in a woman, they secretly like to be indulged as well. Just as a woman thrives on attention, so does a man. But be careful – don’t ‘mother’ him, just love him. Notice little things like his shoes, the way he’s combed his hair, the perfume he’s wearing. Pay attention to his likes, hobbies and interests. This not only shows him how much you care, but it also keeps reminding him that you a definite keeper!
8. Show him he’s the man!
Contrary to popular belief, men do love to talk about themselves, especially with women. In fact, this is one of the fastest ways to get a man’s complete attention. Most women are clueless when it comes to topics that involve men. But listen up girls… the way to a man’s heart is not only through his stomach, but also through his entire body! Talk about his strength, the size of his biceps, his workout regime and masculine energy. These are always great topics for conversation. Remember, guys go crazy for a girl who makes them feel like a guy.
9. Be yourself – you are amazing
Like men, women too have passions. But the mistake most of them make is, they forget what they like and pay more attention to what a man likes. The truth is, a woman’s unique hobbies, skills and interests can make her more attractive to a man. So be yourself, show him your true nature – it could be an obsession for Harry Potter or a passion for collecting fridge magnets – if he doesn’t like all your quirks – is he really relationship material?
10. The scent of a woman
This is one of the guaranteed methods to attracting a man instantly and effortlessly. Research has found that a man’s testosterone levels actually increase in response to a woman’s smell. So always maintain hygiene and choose a fragrance that is perfectly you. Then let nature take care of the rest!